Saturday, February 16, 2008
Grandpas are Significant! Just Ask Them.
Now this isn't the most flattering picture of Grandpa Glenn and Pap, but it is certainly one with which we can have some fun. The fact of the matter is, grandpas are important (so are grandmas, but I didn't dare post a picture of grandmas looking this bad). Since I blog primarily for the kids so that they can remember significant things in their life, it is a good idea to remember grandpas.
I had the good fortune of having both my grandfathers until I was in college. Grandpa Glenn died first during either my freshman or sophomore year at Grove City College of an aortic aneurism. I remember him very well, wrinkly nose and all. He was a pipe and cigarette smoker. I remember him sitting on the back porch or in the back yard smoking. I remember going to the lumber yard where he worked. I remember he was a quiet and happy man. Dad tells me he loved watching boxing. I never knew that from first-hand experience. I'm not sure of Grandpa Glenn's spiritual condition but if I had to guess, I'd say he was a Christian. I was too young to know and/or care. I do however have memories of Grandpa Glenn in church. So I understand from Dad, Grandpa Glenn will be in heaven -- most likely. I'll look forward to seeing him.
Grandpa Landers was around a lot longer and we (mom, dad, Michelle, and Stan) saw him much more frequently. Many, many memories associated with Grandpa Landers: riding the Ferguson tractor, watching Stanley fall off the tractor and get nearly run over by Grandpa (Stan's fault -- sorry little, big brother for casting blame), Grandpa in the barn milking cows (come-bossy), Grandpa in the garden, Grandpa's jovial laugh, Grandpa standing on the porch calling "Dorrrrrrtha" (Grandma's name), riding in the car with Grandpa to downtown Cambridge Springs. I also have some more current memories of Grandpa as well: Grandpa crying (but trying not to) as he was telling me that Grandma had some sort of cancer (slow growing and not fatal) -- he was living in the Leslie Rd. house at the time; Grandpa working in the small woods behind the Leslie Rd. house -- every time we visited the woods was a little bit smaller. Grandpa was directing all his energies to some good use -- clearing the woods. I think it was a great vent for him and both he and the woods were better off for it. I'm guessing the neighbors were glad Grandpa moved before the woods became open pasture land (just kidding)!
The only memory I don't have of Grandpa Landers was seeing him in church very often. In this sense, Grandpa Landers and Grandpa Glenn are a study in contrasts. Grandpa Glenn was, I believe, a man of faith, but a quiet one. Grandpa Landers in his later days was more a man of faith than he was during our growing up years. For that, I'm thankful. But during my growing up years, I had one grandpa who I would consider a Christian and another with whom I had doubts.
My kids are more fortunate than I. They have two grandpas that explicitly profess Christ. Neither would claim to be perfect. In fact, each would be more than willing to point out flaws.......in the other grandpa!!!! Neither would claim to be perfect, but both are walking the Christian walk. Speaking as an experienced grandchild, I can tell you that the faith of my grandfathers was and still is significant. Fathers and grandfathers set the standard and I'm grateful to God that my kids have two grandfathers (and grandmothers) that profess Christ as their savior and strive to live humbly and obediently before Him. Whatever other memories they leave for my kids (and there are many not the least of which is their sense of humor and love of life), the memory of their love for Christ will be the most enduring and important.
They may not look so good in the picture above (in fact, I think they are both sleeping), but they're pretty on the inside! Thanks Grandpa Glenn and Pappy for first and foremost being a lover of Christ in front my kids.
Evelyn's 9th Birthday Party
Well guess who's officially 9 years old? That's right, it's Evelyn Rose Glenn. We had a wonderful birthday celebration for Evelyn on Friday night, 2/15 even though her "real" birthday was 2/14. Grandma and Grandpa Glenn, Pap & Peggy Kimpel, Gary and Lisa Fox, and Joe, Ann and Evan Tweddell all came to the celebration. To see more pictures, click here
and look for the "Evelyn's 9th Birthday" photo album with this picture.
Evelyn was very sweet during her party. She got a LOT of stuff and she liked all her gifts. She genuinely thanked each and every person for the gift they gave to her. She even hugged her sisters (and tried to hug her brother!!)!
Today (Saturday) Evelyn, Meredith and Clint all played basketball games in their Upward league. Upward has been a real blessing. We've spend every Saturday in January and February of this year playing basketball in Upward. There is only one practice and one game (each per child) left before it is all over. We'll all miss it very much.
Today, in Evelyn's game, the team's star player, Hope Miller, was not there. The coach told Evelyn that she took Hope's place. Evelyn was honored to have assumed that role.
Grandma and Granpa Glenn stayed overnight last night and went to see all the games today. They have a wonderful time.
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
The Token System
For nearly a year, the kids have been on "the token system." What is the token system? It is a system of handling money as well as an incentive system to have the kids do work around the house without having to hound them.
Here is how it works. Instead of giving allowances to the kids, we (mostly Mary) developed a schedule of jobs and prices that would be paid for each job. The kids "volunteer" to do these jobs in order to get money to pay for the things they need and/or want. The kids are also paid for their school grades because that is their primary "employment" at this point in life.
Each week, Mary settles up with the kids and they are required to pay 10% to the church (tithe) and 10% into savings. The rest they save and/or spend. Mary has set up a series of envelopes for each child where they can put allocated funds for such things as "cell phone," "toiletries" (they have to buy a good bit of their own clothes and toiletries now that we're on the token system), "Blackburn books" (which they are also required to buy), "camp money," etc.
The key to this system is making sure there is a legitimate need all the time. If the kids earn enough money and buy everything they want, then the work stops because there is no need.
It's been a good learning experience for all of us. The only downside is that there is a bit too much talk about money around the house for my taste, but overall, it has been a good experience and the kids are learning how to be a good steward of the money God entrusts to them.
Here is how it works. Instead of giving allowances to the kids, we (mostly Mary) developed a schedule of jobs and prices that would be paid for each job. The kids "volunteer" to do these jobs in order to get money to pay for the things they need and/or want. The kids are also paid for their school grades because that is their primary "employment" at this point in life.
Each week, Mary settles up with the kids and they are required to pay 10% to the church (tithe) and 10% into savings. The rest they save and/or spend. Mary has set up a series of envelopes for each child where they can put allocated funds for such things as "cell phone," "toiletries" (they have to buy a good bit of their own clothes and toiletries now that we're on the token system), "Blackburn books" (which they are also required to buy), "camp money," etc.
The key to this system is making sure there is a legitimate need all the time. If the kids earn enough money and buy everything they want, then the work stops because there is no need.
It's been a good learning experience for all of us. The only downside is that there is a bit too much talk about money around the house for my taste, but overall, it has been a good experience and the kids are learning how to be a good steward of the money God entrusts to them.
Sunday, February 10, 2008
Clint's Progress
New Windows
This last week was an interesting week. Mary feels like she was living in the Twilight Zone. Except for Monday, she had several (up to 8) men in the house every day putting in new windows and 3 new doors. It kinda shakes up a girl's schedule when you have no downtime and/or privacy.
Nonetheless, the new windows and doors are in and they look great. It's warmer and quieter in the house now.
Pictured here is Mary and Clint and Uncle Stan and Aunt Wava's house during 2007 Christmas.
Friday, February 8, 2008
Frankenstein Party at the Glenn's
Ellen had over about 15 of her classmates to watch the old Boris Karloff version of Mary Shelley's, Frankenstein. They just finished reading the book in class. According to the crowd, the movie was nothing like the book, but it was good nonetheless. Everyone seemed to have a great time. The attached picture is of one of Ellen's classmates, Peter Holt. This is how he looks normally - he is a Siamese's twin joined at the elbow. Both of them are very "happy jolly " fellows -- so Ellen tells me.
After the party was over, Clint had a great one-liner. He was wandering aimlessly around the kitchen after having enjoyed the company of Ellen's classmates for the last several hours. Now that they were all gone and the party was over, Clint turns to me and say something to the effect of "Dad, it's tough adjusting to the after-party attitude. I just don't like it. It's like taking a shower. I just don't want to do it!"
We make Clint shower at least once each month for those of you who are wondering!
Friday, February 1, 2008
Speaking of Ellen.....Swing Dance
On January 26th, Blackburn Study Center -- the place where all four kids go twice a week for some co-op homeschooling classes -- sponsored an instructional Swing Dance. A Geneva College student who was well versed in swing dance came and instructed the crowd of roughly 40-50 kids and a handful of adults (I and Mary included) in how to swing dance. It was a formal affair. Once again, my daughter was the second most beautiful girl there.......my wife was the first.
Pictured here are the lovely Ellen (on left) and Emily Nicklas, Ellen's good friend.
Enjoy more pictures by clicking HERE.
Ellen Turns 15
Pap & Peg Celebrate 50 Year's of Marital Bliss
You better believe it has be marital bliss. You can tell by the look on their faces. On Sunday, January 13, the four Kimpel girls (now all lovely ladies) threw an anniversary celebration for their beloved mom and dad in the basement of 1st United Methodist Church in Ellwood City. I'm guessing there were close to 200 people that came to enjoy wedding cake and fellowship. In some breif comments made by Pap to those gathered, he commented on all 4 of his girls whom he made come up and stand in front of the crowd (ugh!). Pap recalled Lisa's non-stop crying as a baby. He recalled Beckie never crying and he and Peg wondering what was wrong with her! He recalled Mary's crying on the phone to a teacher she felt had not been fair with her. She had a difficult time explaining herself through her tears. And Pap remembers telling people that when asked what gender he thought his 4th child would be, he and Peg had no doubt from the very start that it would be another girl -- exactly what they wanted. It was -- exactly what they wanted -- a Jeanie Beanie!
While Paps comments to the crowd centered on his four girls, it was obvious that his true love was the women who stood by his side...and has been there for 50+ years. Peg's love for Pap is just as obvious. Two of the kindest, most self-sacrificing people on God's earth.
We ALL love you, Pap & Peg.
See more anniversary pictures by clicking HERE.
Christmas 2007
All three Christmases were good. Every year we have 3 Christmases. One at Pap & Pegs; one with the Glenns either at Grandpa and Grandma Glenns or at Uncle Stan and Aunt Wava's, and then one here at our home. This year we spent a wonderful day at Pap & Peg's, another 2-3 days (including travel time) at Uncle Stan and Aunt Wava's (we stayed at Beckie's), and a good day here in our home. I'm attaching a few pictures to this blog but you can see more at the Web link below: http://dougglenn.smugmug.com/gallery/4002649#232892473
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