Ellen and Mary Go Shopping

We've been somewhat fortunate not to have to struggle with "clothing issues,".....much. Ellen, of all the four kids, has been the most clothing-centric although it has not been all that bad and it seems to be getting better. Witness the most recent shopping trip by Mary and Ellen.
First, it should be noted that Mary has historically avoided shopping with Ellen because it can be a high-stress activity.
Second, Ellen has serious issues going shopping with either of her parents because we have these "sometimes" unrealistic standards about the clothes she can buy. Here are a few examples of the unrealistic expectations we have for young ladies purchasing clothes:

• pants ought to ride high enough in the back so that when a young lady kneels or squats, all those behind her are made abundantly aware of where she shops for her underwear.
• pants ought to ride high enough in the front so that a young lady's navel is NOT far from her belt (or even under her belt would be better).
• skirts need to be knee-length or longer
  
• blouses/shirts need to fit in such a way that they do not need to be often "pulled up" simply to avoid indecent exposure (or the threat thereof)
• shirts/blouses must not be form-fitting (tight)

These are the expectations that sometimes meet with resistance....although not so much anymore.

This last shopping adventure was apparently a storming success. Mary too Ellen to spend up to $200 of ELLEN's money on clothes.
The first stop was American Eagle where Mary promptly set herself down and started making "pray-chain" telephone calls and turned Ellen loose to find what it was she wanted to find. Ellen soon found herself tied up with one or two of the store clerks whom she indicated were "very helpful," and spent over $100 buying shirts, sweaters, jeans (not too low), and a "hoody." She even put a few things back so she had enough money to buy a church outfit -- which she needed badly.
Mary finished up her phone calls; Ellen finished up shopping. All items were approved by Mary and off they went to Boscovs to look for church clothes. Ellen wanted to go to Boscovs because she heard she could save 15%.
Boscovs was also successful. Ellen got a lovely church outfit.
Both Mary and Ellen came home sane and with good reports on the success of the venture.
Then Dad (me) approved all the outfits.
I am proud of both Mary and Ellen. Ellen did a great job shopping and Mary did a great job enjoying the experience.